When is he going to call me?
"When is he going to call me?" This is probably the most frequent question I receive from my intuitive counseling clients. It is a very understandable question. But, just by asking or even thinking this question almost guarantees that he will take longer to call you. Which, of course, makes you more anxious and you want to ask the question more often... Which creates a self-sustaining state of insecurity which drives him away even more...
So, what's the solution? Pretend you don't see us...
Men are just like cats in this regard, if you try and grab them, they run away or scratch you. If you just leave the door open and forget they're there, they will just walk in the door and start rubbing against your leg and asking for treats...
It is such a turn on when we men encounter women who know they are hot, sexy and desirable and yet don't need anyone's attention. That makes us crazy for you.
Like those cats, men are hunters by nature. If our prey sees us noticing them and starts running towards us, it confuses us and we get scared and run away. Prey is not supposed to chase after us! We're supposed to chase after our prey!
But, if you strut around, confident and oblivious to us, an ancient instinct kicks in and we set off in pursuit of you.
So, the answer to the question, "When is he going to call me?" is if you even thinking or asking the question, probably never. But, if you think, "I don't need him. There are so many guys after me and none of them know what they're missing." Then the energetic connection between you and him is filled with a dynamic sexual tension and he will start thinking about you and will call you...
Have you ever noticed that when you are done with him, he calls you out of the blue?
We can feel your confidence and we can feel your desperation regardless of distance.
So, stop asking the question, stop caring and then your question will be, "Jeez, when is he going to stop calling me all the time?"
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